My definition of belonging is: “The perception you are an integral part of a community that embraces you for being authentic” Belonging, which means being accepted for you, differs from fitting in, which means being accepted for being like everyone else. Fitting in requires assessing a situation and changing in order to be accepted. Belonging does not require us to change who we are; “it requires us to be who we are.” -Brene Brown*
Belonging does not fall within a dichotomy, rather the more connected with yourself and others that you feel through various means, the more of a sense of belonging you may have.
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AuthorVrindy Spencer is constantly seeking inspiration on topics of personal and human development, leadership, community, connection, and intimacy (with self and others). Archives
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